I know the title of this blog post might seem quite lame to the few people who have recently formed a new definition to the term ‘Boss Chick’ in Ghana.
People are buying into the propaganda that being a boss chick in Ghana means being some sort of high-class prostitute or harlot.
Initially, I perceived the term was quite self-explanatory until I consulted a few of my female friends on what comes to their minds immediately they hear the term boss chick and the responses I received was quite shocking.
Most of them were with the perception I stated earlier, they believed being a boss chick was some kind of indecent act and a serious involvement in sexual immorality and I scoffed but upon further processing, I understood them because there are a lot of tramadol induced prostitutes parading themselves as boss chicks confusing our young ladies that being a boss chick meant selling your cookie for some few bucks.
Let’s clear the misconception once and for all. This is the actual definition of who a boss chick is according to Urban Dictionary
“A real woman that’s got her money right and is ahead of the game she knows how to hold her own and never ever lets anyone talk down on her and wherever she goes shes well respected shes an independent female and anything she wants in life she achieves she always aims high and reaches for greater things her standards are high and never lowers them for any man her style is classy and sophisticated and always got her hair and nails on point, no bitch can compare to a REAL Boss Chick.
boss chick: how much for this bag
boss chick: great ill take one in every color.”
A boss chick is a woman with virtue who rules her own world, very independent, confident and can’t be easily intimidated. She’s her own boss, self-employed and a mother “forking” CEO. Don’t get it twisted with prostitution because prostitution is outrightly opposite to being a boss chick.
Now that we’ve established some clarity to who a real boss chick is I guess we can smoothly proceed to the benefit and reasons why you should actually consider being a BC. I have carefully gathered a few good reasons on why you should join the train to boss “chickness” let me walk you through.
Like most successful entrepreneurs being a boss chick reduces your dependency ratio. You won’t need to desperately depend on people for survival which mostly leads to debts and other unfavorable situations which easily influence young ladies to sort to selling their cookies for a few bucks. Start planning now to get your independence. Independence ladies are very attractive to successful men.
You Command Respect
Respect is one of the many benefits a lady can derive from being a boss chick and you will command respect just by being independent, you don’t ask for it — it just naturally flows to you. There’s a reason why you will quickly jump to an opportunity to travel to any of the developed countries in the world ahead of Ghana. It’s simple. Developed countries have less dependency ratio, a lot of opportunities and are self-sufficient. In fact, developed countries are well-respected worldwide and they call the shots. People can’t boss you around because you are the boss. Do you really think men respect housewives? NO.
You Fulfill Scripture
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates.”
You Get To Choose Your Husband
I know a lot of women who are marrying for all the wrong reasons and it saddens me. Most women choose partners because of survival and being a boss chick removes this stupid blindfold from your eyes to see clearly. You put yourself in a very good position to choose the right partner because you’re not desperate for survival.
You Have Time To Really Enjoy Life
Can you imagine when you’re running late for work, stuck in traffic and still have to drop the kids at school? Working a 9-5 job is cool but stressful. The salary might cover a lot but I dare you to be a boss. Avoid the stress and pressure of working for some insensitive jerk and enjoy life. Start a business now. If you are already working a 9-5 job draw your own business plan, evaluate the cost involved, save up and fire your boss.
There’s no time like a perfect time because if you start something now you will be proud you did in 5 years to come. Being a boss chick is sexy, it gives you ample time to explore, have fun with family and friends.
I have friends who even go to work on Sundays. Like Wtf!
In conclusion, I need to say this, I know how power consumes an individual if not properly managed and being a boss chick comes with excessive power and fire that if not handled well can bring severe doom or solitude to a person. You can abuse your power and fire can burn. That’s why I am preparing two articles to support this one and it will be ready next week.
1. 5 Easy Businesses A Woman Can Do To Become A Boss Chick.
2. How To Control Power And Fire.
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